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I'm jealous of my friends...........?

I'm 21, I'm a girl(gonna change my pic later) I go to college full time,I work part time and volunteer.My friends on the other hand do NOt go to college,and becuase of that all still live at home and have TONS of cash.They all look fashionable and have the most creative and amazing clothing and accesories(I shop at the discount bin) and looks do matter,I'm an attractive girl, but I look boring becuase nothing stands out while my friends all look so cool an interesting when compared to me. They are also not always busy and tired like me.They have time to sit at the computer all day and find interesting music bands and piercings. I'm just jealous. I'm trying so hard to get the life I want, while my friends are just spending money and having fun,while I'm responsible, ambitious and poor! between car payments,rent and school I only have about $50 to spend on me a month. How can I get over the fact that people think my friends are more interesting and fun then me becuase of what they own?

Public Comments

1. times will come for to shine college and work are much more important than superficial things like fashions and partying here and there , trust me ur the winner here a person = nothing without a degree to help him face life difficulties. look at it as hard time and lesson for u in life will help u to value money and everything around u. its just period of time which will end one day and then u can start partying and doing all the fun stuff.
2. pleeeease dont leave college! Dont feel jealous, because what youre doing is getting a good education, and thats wayyy better than fashion and looks. Good luck in college, hey if you want a cool style like youre friends, then make up your own. It doesnt have to be new stuff. Make stuff, sew it, to me thats the best. Good luck!!
3. take a look at your fingers....are they the same length? Everyone is not the same.some people have it all some have to work for it. that's just life. you will enjoy the fruits of your labor in the future. concentrate on your studies,work and volunteering. you are getting yourself ready fro a brighter future.that should be your sole priority.you should look for a crowd where you blend in,your collegues.you are a better person and will end up being more responsible and independent.when you start thinking highly of yourself, people will think highly of you. don't mess up ypur life cos of anyone else.be contwmpted with what you have. you are still alive.Be Good now.